Hi! We’re Eugene and Irka!
We’ve been on quite a journey and we’d love to help you with yours. We’ve been together for two decades. We live in Brooklyn (because of course we do) with our boyfriend of 7 years and have surrounded ourselves with a wonderful tribe of friends, partners and lovers. Our own journey has been filled with trails, tribulations, successes and exaltations. Over the years, we have learned to communicate, accept each other, support each other and help one another and our relationship thrive.
Professionally we started our careers in finance. We have run and sold companies, we have mentored executives, we have built communities, we have traveled the world together and now find the most meaningful work to be helping others. Friends started coming to us with questions about non-monogamy and then for help with their relationships several years ago. They recommended their friends and our practice grew organically (and, at first, accidentally!). Now our mission is to help you create relationships that help you thrive.
We started exploring ethical non-monogamy before we knew the term and before half the profiles on Tinder said Poly or ENM. Not only have we learned quite a lot along the way but we have a deep fascination with human psychology and love finding solutions to other people’s relationship problems. We find helping individuals, couples and polycules of all sizes develop, transform and strengthen the relationships of their dreams deeply rewarding work.
We hope we can help you too.